Divorce: Getting the right advice

Going for a divorce is probably one of the toughest decisions one makes in life. But when you have tried everything to make your relationship work and there is no other option left, you need to take that hard decision. Sometimes it is better to let go of a relationship which has no future and happiness than to hold on to it. It will only make life miserable for everyone involved and not give you a chance to open yourselves to other prospects.

The process of getting a divorce is a painful experience, and one that you will probably never want to go through in the first place. But when the time comes, you will need to obtain the best legal and other advice to help you get through the process in a fair and simple manner.

8 tips on where and how to meet single men

Recent statistics from surveys conducted in the United States have shown that it is more difficult for women over 30 to meet single men, than for men to meet unattached women of the same age bracket. The men that women of that age meet, are either married, engaged or gay. While it might be true that it is difficult, but it is certainly not impossible, to meet single men, provided you are willing to make some effort. Nobody has the time to wait for Mr. Prince Charming to come and sweep them off their feet and women are ready to go looking for Mr. Average instead. The only question is where are they looking and how are they getting the right ones when the others are not?

You can hardly expect to find the man of your dreams when travelling in the subway, although that do sometimes happen. But instead of waiting for your dream man to cross your path at some point of time in the future, isn't it better to take some positive action and go to those places where they are likely to be? Or to devise the means which will make it more probable for you to meet someone then sitting in the weekends watching your favorite sitcoms? So, if you are all geared up to meet the man of your dreams, here are the eight best ways and places on how and where to meet the most eligible men, both in your town and outside.

4 things to remember before having a baby

To become a parent is one of the best experiences in life, but there are also a lot of complications to face, especially if you are unprepared.You might have heard from the elders and the experienced that having a baby and being a parent is the most natural thing in the world. If you believe them, it is almost like climbing a tree, it comes naturally to you once you start doing it. But the truth is a little more complicated than what they tell you.

If you become pregnant unexpectedly, you and your partner might decide to keep the baby, but to go for the option without talking about it will only make things difficult in the future. It is absolutely okay to decide to go for a baby after you discover being pregnant, but to bring in a child into this world without even thinking if you are ready to have a baby or not, is not a right decision. Here are a few things to help you be prepared for a baby.

How to get rid of shopping addiction

Let's admit it, if you are a woman and if you love dressing up, the shopping bug has bitten you more than once. If you have watched "Confessions of a shopaholic", you'll appreciate the problems which can arise from too much shopping. 

The ecstatic consumer market has profitably cashed in on this madcap shopping trend, and so now you will find that instead of your everyday needs, the front rows of the shopping aisles are loaded with expensive, attractive and absolutely non-essential stuff. Even if you can resist buying these eye-catching items on your first trip, you will ultimately succumb to the lure of the bright packaging, unless you are very strong-willed.

If you fall under the category of a compulsive buyer, by now you are worried with the state of your depleting savings. Compulsive shopping is nothing but an addiction and like all addictions, shopping also is expensive. Fortunately, there are ways to help get rid of this obsession, some of which are listed below.

What men want in a woman?

With the changing times, the idea of what a man wants in a woman has also undergone a drastic change. Modern men want a very different category of women, compared to what is usually depicted in chick flicks and romance novels. Gone are the days when the rich, handsome hero was mesmerized by the helpless, shy fragile girl and enchanted by her shyness. It’s a different story now, so read on to decide for yourself if you prefer the modern times to the past generations. That said, tastes and choices of men might vary and no offence to anyone who disagrees to my views.

10 movies of unconditional love which made us cry

People like to watch movies for relaxation and fun, but weepy romantic movies still manage to make the top lists. It proves that we are always moved by strong emotions. Below are my 10 favorite tear-jerker movie scenes, that won’t fail to make you cry, unless you are really the unemotional, strong types.

#1. Hachiko – A dog’s story

Office Romance: Is it worth it?

Romance at the workplace might have a Mills-and-Boon ring to it, but the road to it is often filled with more dangers than you can handle. Although novels and movies are rife with happily ending office romances, reality is a different picture altogether. The temptation of a workplace affair is very intense and the opportunities are also vast, hence most people step into the landmine without thinking about the consequences. Especially, with the current work hours and dedication to one’s career, people tend to spend more time in the workplace than anywhere else; hence the chances of office affairs are fairly high. But the truth is these few days of romantic interlude may end up costing you more than what you bargained for.

Even though one might argue that there are many live examples of happy office romances which have not had any sinister after effects, but unfortunately those are very few and far between. Without belittling those who have found happiness through the workplace, the ratio of failed romances however is much higher compared to the successful ones. In most cases, office romances lead to disastrous results with lasting repercussions. After the entire episode is over, you will probably be left wondering if it was all worth the pain and effort. So, if you are in the verge of falling into the honeyed trap of an office affair, you might consider these facts first.